What is beauty?
Hello everyone! I am writing this post because I got greatly inspired from a lot of people today that spoke to me about what I am going to talk about. I often observe people and notice how they deal with things that I am going to talk about in this post.
I have noticed people criticizing themselves to the core. I have seen people look in the mirror and just seem so unhappy. I have heard people envy others on looks. Sadly, most of these people commenting on such things are girls! So, this brings me to one question: why cant girls be happy with themselves? Cz we aren't perfect?( we referring to girls in general) This brings me to another question: what is perfection? is it beauty? then, what is beauty? hmm...quite a thinker isn't it?
I shall answer these questions in my own way, and with my own opinion. We all think differently and have different definitions. This is mine:
Lets start with beauty:) Beauty can either have a deep meaning or superficial meaning. I will start with the superficial one since it is one of the most common. Every girl wants to look a certain way. Every girl has a certain goal to reach on looks in their mind. Its a human instinct to want to look good, and quite honestly its healthy. Looking good makes you feel good and psychologically makes you feel happy. Especially when others acknowledge your beauty. I believe every girl is beautiful, and quite honestly what makes each person beautiful is uniqueness. We are all different and special in our own way. We are all different shapes,sizes, colour. None of us are the same, which is amazing. Why would you want to look just like someone else? that would be boring. Your own personal beauty stands out because its
different. Weather you notice it or see it is entirely up to you.There is one important thing we have to all realize and think.We are who we are till the end of time. We were born in our skin,we can't change it. So, why not embrace it and love ourselves for the beauties we are?
Now,the deep meaning of beauty. The deep side of beauty is the one that stays with you forever..thats why its deep, or as many say,
inner beauty.I know all of you have heard this at least once or so, but here it goes.A beautiful individual( i'm focusing on women of all ages , since this blog is mainly viewed by girls,and i'm one myself :p) isn't just the appearance , it goes deep into the soul of a person. A persons soul is well reflected on the persons appearance. When you are a loving, happy good person, it shows directly on you. That beauty will never fade, no matter how old you get or what happens. This kind of beauty i'm talking about, it the beauty that catches everyones eye because its pure, its real, and natural. Be the person you are and you will be happier. When you love yourself, it reflect on you.Be the person you are and you will be more confident. Be the person you are and embrace your inner beauty, recognize your virtues and you will keep on shining.
Either way, in beauty, weather its physical or not , you got to embrace what you have and love your self inside out. Love your self for you are, and love your self for how you look. Love each freckle , love each bit of yourself, because no one has what you have. You are you and you are special the way you are. If there is something bothering you badly about yourself, then change it! So, what if people criticize you. that shouldn't matter , because what matters is you! If you can't change something you're not happy with. Learn to love it :)
Perfection: As I mentioned beauty and my thoughts about it, it links to perfection. Perfection is our own definition of what we think about something. We need to understand, no body is perfect. No one on this earth is. No one.If we think someone is, then thats in our mind. What might be perfect to me, might not be perfect to you. The definition of perfection is long too, but I will go just into its "beauty" part of it, since its what i'm talking about. Perfection is what you make of it. Don't be harsh on your self, love your self as i said, and appreciate all what you have.
In conclusion, all i want to say to every girl out there is: Be happy with who you are. Learn to love your self. And allow yourself to actually see your beauty and virtues.
I'm sorry this post is sooooo long, but I just thought it is important to get these thoughts out there. I hear way to many girls put themselves down, and it is not fair.
lets be who we are <3
Lots of love,
MissChiquitaxx