Feeling so happy, but not too sure
Reality hits me, and there is no cure
I look at the window to try to find tomorrow
Instead I see you staring back with so much sorrow
Telling me one thing while hearing another
I have no clue what I am about to discover
Feeling unhappy, but not too sure
Seeing your lies don't make me insecure
I fill up with pride as I sale this high tide
Looking forward, leaving this feeling behind
Memories so precious, once felt so new
With all your wonderful words feeling so true
Opening my eyes to see the present lies
A loud whisper beneath my eyes
Surrounded by a mirrored wall
Watching ironies fall
Feeling so happy, but not too sure
Reality hits me, and there is no cure
-MN
Friday, June 8, 2012
Sunday, June 3, 2012
A topic that crosses every ones mind, but never really spoken about?
Hello bloggers and bloguettes!
Yes..bloguette is not a word..is it? Well then I just either made it up or completely ruined its spelling!
So, I guess this post can also be called" What I have been wanting to blog about for ages#2",but I thought that would be too boring of a title, since the topic I will go into is pretty broad, complicated and simple all at once. This topic has many reasons to why I am blogging about it, and many reasons to what leads into the actual thing I am going to talk about. I am not really sure how to put it, or what word to choose, but I will make it a simple word, and build it up as i type. Envy. Yes my lovelies, that is the topic I will go into today.
Envy is something that is never really admitted now in these modern days, but it is very, very easily decoded. Sadly This occurs ALOT among girls. Again, I am not trying to bring girls down, or say that we suck( I am a girl too, don't forget!), I am just trying to put out that we need to improve and stop these barriers. Barriers? exactly! Envy is a huge barrier. Envy is what does not let us get along with each other, what has us constantly comparing each other,putting each other down in a helpless manner. Envy does not let us be the people we are, and blocks us from being happy..yet alone feeling happy.
The reason why I chose this topic today in particular is because I have noticed a lot of "fakeness" around, I have notice a lot of hating, and competition( that will never stop I don't think). I am sure at least one of you reading this post can relate, if not completely then maybe partially. Sadly many people say hi to each other and the minute they go separate ways they ought to be talking bad things about each other. The question is: If you don't like a certain person why are you still "friends" with that person? The answer to this one is simple. Many envious people get addicted to this cycle of putting others down just so they can feel better about themselves. When a person talks trash about you, it is obvious they just want to make you feel bad. Cause? Envy.
Girls constantly compare themselves to others and in their mind compete, and if in any way they do not feel they are "better" they start trying to ruin the image of the one they are trying to compete with.
My word of advice? It is normal to want to improve, in fact it is healthy as I think I have said before in my previous " what I have been wanting to blog about for ages" post. One thing I have learnt from other people including myself is, You can't be happy if you are not your self. Be your own personal best. The best part of it? No one else is like you which makes you stand out. Isn't it better to stand out rather than to blend in with the crowd? Instead of wishing what others have, lets work with what we have. Lets improve our selves to be the best version of ourselves. Instead of trashing someone down with horrible words or rumors, Lets compliment that person. The more we put people down or compare ourselves with others, the more dull it makes us look and feel. We can't be happy with ourselves if we are not happy with our surroundings.
Bottom line: There is nothing wrong with being yourself, no matter what others think. Peoples judgment does not matter. The reason why it affects us so much is because we have learnt to be affected by it. The people that do not like you for who YOU really are, aren't worth being around you.If people like "fake" then most probably they are "fake" too. If you cant have what you want, It might not be for you. Something better is out there for you. The key to life is patience.
Lets stop this envious cycle amongst each other, and instead, lets help each other make a difference in outlives and in the lives of others by being the people we truly are.
MissChiquitaxx
Yes..bloguette is not a word..is it? Well then I just either made it up or completely ruined its spelling!
So, I guess this post can also be called" What I have been wanting to blog about for ages#2",but I thought that would be too boring of a title, since the topic I will go into is pretty broad, complicated and simple all at once. This topic has many reasons to why I am blogging about it, and many reasons to what leads into the actual thing I am going to talk about. I am not really sure how to put it, or what word to choose, but I will make it a simple word, and build it up as i type. Envy. Yes my lovelies, that is the topic I will go into today.
Envy is something that is never really admitted now in these modern days, but it is very, very easily decoded. Sadly This occurs ALOT among girls. Again, I am not trying to bring girls down, or say that we suck( I am a girl too, don't forget!), I am just trying to put out that we need to improve and stop these barriers. Barriers? exactly! Envy is a huge barrier. Envy is what does not let us get along with each other, what has us constantly comparing each other,putting each other down in a helpless manner. Envy does not let us be the people we are, and blocks us from being happy..yet alone feeling happy.
The reason why I chose this topic today in particular is because I have noticed a lot of "fakeness" around, I have notice a lot of hating, and competition( that will never stop I don't think). I am sure at least one of you reading this post can relate, if not completely then maybe partially. Sadly many people say hi to each other and the minute they go separate ways they ought to be talking bad things about each other. The question is: If you don't like a certain person why are you still "friends" with that person? The answer to this one is simple. Many envious people get addicted to this cycle of putting others down just so they can feel better about themselves. When a person talks trash about you, it is obvious they just want to make you feel bad. Cause? Envy.
Girls constantly compare themselves to others and in their mind compete, and if in any way they do not feel they are "better" they start trying to ruin the image of the one they are trying to compete with.
My word of advice? It is normal to want to improve, in fact it is healthy as I think I have said before in my previous " what I have been wanting to blog about for ages" post. One thing I have learnt from other people including myself is, You can't be happy if you are not your self. Be your own personal best. The best part of it? No one else is like you which makes you stand out. Isn't it better to stand out rather than to blend in with the crowd? Instead of wishing what others have, lets work with what we have. Lets improve our selves to be the best version of ourselves. Instead of trashing someone down with horrible words or rumors, Lets compliment that person. The more we put people down or compare ourselves with others, the more dull it makes us look and feel. We can't be happy with ourselves if we are not happy with our surroundings.
Bottom line: There is nothing wrong with being yourself, no matter what others think. Peoples judgment does not matter. The reason why it affects us so much is because we have learnt to be affected by it. The people that do not like you for who YOU really are, aren't worth being around you.If people like "fake" then most probably they are "fake" too. If you cant have what you want, It might not be for you. Something better is out there for you. The key to life is patience.
Lets stop this envious cycle amongst each other, and instead, lets help each other make a difference in outlives and in the lives of others by being the people we truly are.
MissChiquitaxx
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